Showing posts with label Loss. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Loss. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 9, 2013

"Our only Hope..." etc.

Sometimes my kids say things and 1. I have no idea where they came up with that saying and 2. I just crack up because it's so darn cute.

Today I was a super smart lady and decided to lock my wallet and phone in my glove compartment while we went swimming at a new rec center.  I want to bring my wallet with me in the car, but I don't always want to take it in with me and since my vehicle is a magnet for thieves I thought it was a brilliant idea.  There was some resistance when I used the key to lock it but I didn't think twice.  When Mister and I left the pool I went to unlock the compartment and it wouldn't budge one way or another.  I turned it so hard that I thought I was going to break the key off inside the lock.  We came home and I tried the spare key and it didn't work.  Super weird, if you ask me.  Blaine tends to think about situations in his sweet little head constantly.  He thinks of new solutions, problems created by the current problem, solutions to the future problems, and what it's all going to cost.  After about 30 minutes of failed attempts at opening the lock I gave up and we went about our business.  Then Blaine pipes up and says, "Mama, Daddy's key is our only hope!"  I had to ask him to repeat himself, which he did, because seriously what five year old uses the expression, "our only hope."

Then there is HG who has moved up to the primary classroom at her preschool.  Her little 2.5 year old body is in class with 3-6 year olds.  This is totally crazy to me! She fits right in, of course, and hasn't skipped a beat.  We were at the park yesterday and while Blaine played with his therapist, Ms. Ali, HG and I walked along the bank of this little creek.  She was walking in front of me, leaning ever-so-slightly forward (her classic walk) with her hands behind her back, clenched together.  Then she says, "So, Mama, what plans do you have today?"  I think I laughed out loud because it was so out of the blue and she was treating me like an old friend.  And before I could answer she continued with, "And what have you been up to lately?  What are you and Daddy doing later?"  I tried to answer her questions but she just kept on with her own personal walk-in-the-park dialogue.  Too cute.

There was no school today because of this weird April snow "storm" we had.  Wind, rain, snow and school don't mix apparently.  When I was a kid there had to be like three feet of snow on the ground before school was cancelled, but not here.  I think they (Coloradans) were hoping for something much bigger, but it was a puny storm and frankly, kids should've been in school!  But we made the best of it and went swimming with Ms. Ali and her daughter, whom Blaine likes to entertain and play with.

Speaking of swimming, Mister finally started his private swim lessons at the Y in preparation for their summer swim team.  His teacher said that his back stroke is awesome, as is his freestyle.  The butterfly and breast stroke were just introduced to him, so he's got some learning to do but she felt confident that in eight lessons he would be ready to join the team.  I am hoping and praying that he sticks with it and that after he gains some momentum and feels what it is like to work hard and see improvement that he feel intrinsically motivated to keep going!  What he's really excited about is two weeks at Thorne Nature Experience this summer.  He is eager to get outside and get his hands dirty with other kids his age.  We're excited for him too!

We received some sad news this morning.  Pop's mom, Anita, passed away this morning.  We had the pleasure of spending some special time with Anita over the last several years.  She came to our house in Austin several times for special birthday events, we saw her at Marie and Jeff's a few times when we were in Dallas and my favorite memory of her was the Mother's Day we spent with her.  She had her three boys and their families with her and we were blessed to be a part of that gathering.  The saying: 'Sweet little ol' lady" came from Anita, I swear! She was so gentle and caring and I always loved getting little squeezes from her when we would see her.  She had been sick for some time and I know it was hard for her family to journey with her, so our hearts and prayers go out to Marie, Jeff and their entire family as they mourn the loss of the matriarch of their family.  Rest in peace, sweet Anita.  We will all miss you.

Mister and I running stairs at Westminster Park.

HG so silly.
So old!

  

Sunday, March 6, 2011

God Called her Home - Erica Gough Paul: 1981-2011


I met Erica in 1995 when I was working at The Buckle in Midland, Michigan. Erica was two years younger than me but we became pretty good friends. Though we went to different schools we managed to hang out on the weekends and we spent a lot of time being goofy together at work.

We reconnected through Facebook over a year ago. That's when I found out that Erica had been diagnosed with cancer but was fighting it with all her might and with every resource available to her.  We communicated several times and I kept up with her Caring Bridge Page - her strength, love for Christ, and hope amazed me.  The more I learned about her life the more she inspired me.  I have never experienced joy through another person like I did through her.

Unfortunately for us here on earth she was called Home tonight.  She died tonight surrounded by her husband and her family. 

Dear Erica, I was shocked to hear of your passing but I know that you are free now and that you have been reunited with your Maker.  You have inspired me so much in the last year - the way you lived your life will be a memory that I will not forget.  Thank you for being you.  I'll be praying for your husband and family during this difficult time.  We all know that you are the lucky one, spending your first night in heaven!  God Bless.

Here is a video that features Erica.